Monthly Archives: May 2018

Just what is jealousy?

Most of us have heard of the “green-eyed monster” – jealousy. But what is it really? First, jealousy is not envy. It’s not a sign of love. It’s not protectiveness. And it’s not necessarily insecurity. Personally, I view jealousy in a relationship as a mixture of possessiveness / ownership and a perception that one’s relationship … read more

Want an effective therapist?

Finding a therapist is easy – phone books and the Internet have dozens of therapist listings. What’s not easy is choosing an effective therapist. I’m darn picky about who I’ll accept as a therapist. In my experience there are only two basic types of therapists, with some variations. The first type completes their degree and … read more